Shadow Play

with Emma Westgate

Give yourself over


Combining sensuality and fantasy with depth-psychology, I provide genuine experiences that awaken the instincts, strip the ego, and grant access to deeper levels of being.

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We all have a dark side, a shadow self, which when left unattended can manifest in addiction, self-destruction, and self-sabotage.

I provide a unique service for those looking to escape the confines of the every-day, relinquish control, and explore the darker crevices of the unknown in a sensual, intimate, and completely stimulating environment.

Hosting close to the financial district in King West, Toronto.


  • You are in a position of authority and need a break from being in charge

  • You seek more from a mistress than just a played role

  • You feel like something is missing from your life

  • You feel stuck and continually let people down

  • You love to worship and pamper extraordinary women

  • You have excessive feelings of inferiority

  • You feel the need to be humiliated

  • You feel the need to be guided, mentored, or told what to do

  • You need someone to structure your life

  • You need an escape from the confines of day-to-day reality


Not your average dominatrix. Instead of the standard BDSM routines, I offer customized experiences based on your specific needs and desires. Each client is different so each session varies, but generally we will begin with a one hour assessment, a dinner most likely, in which you will tell me about yourself, your needs, and your desires. From there I will plan out a fantasy, crafted for your very specific needs, and we will negotiate a path forward. An initiation fee of $200 is required in advance of assessments.

  • Compassion and dedication

  • Intricate fantasy creation

  • Total respect of boundaries and safe words

  • Empathetic domination

  • Immaculate feminine presence



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King & Dufferin, Toronto


$200 / one-time-only assessment meeting and initiation fee

$300 / 1 hour

$900 / 5 hours (ideal for date nights and outings)

$250 / 1 hour foot play only

  • No overnight

  • No intercourse



While each client is unique, I do offer a few staple services, which are long-standing client favourites.

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Are you successful at work but failing at home and with your loved ones? Come tell me where you’ve gone wrong and let me push you in the right direction.

Mentorships include verbal and corporal punishments, as well as assignments and tasks aimed at revealing you for what you really are, and helping you access what you need to be.

You can’t be better on your own. Submit yourself to me, lose your ego, and become capable of full, unbridled integration.

Only through submission will you find your full potential.


A gentler alternative to Mentorship, Sensual Counselling involves intimate counselling sessions that explore your sexual and shadow nature through depth and Jungian psychological approaches. I am a specialist in archetypal and unconscious processes and have a gift for finding the blockages and potentials of all my clients.

Service Includes:

  • Life discussion

  • Fantasy exploration and role-play

  • Dream analysis

  • Touch therapy

  • Meditation

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Release your hold on power with good old fashioned foot fetish foot play.

Submit while I show you the sharp edge of my heel or kneel at my feet and pamper me with lotions and polish.

Size 6

High arches

Immaculate condition

Special price: $250 / hour


Tender but stern mommy to adult babies

Letter writing and email exchanges to maintain your desired fantasy or provide mentorship - monthly fee negotiable

Talk-only meetings with sensual presence

Date nights - Out only


Gift ideas for those who like to do that something extra:

Hammam Spa gift card

Wilfred gift card

Club Monaco Gift Card

West Elm Gift Card

House plants

Dark Chocolate

Clothing, lingerie - size 0-2

Shoe size - 6

If there’s something in particular you’d like to see me in, or have me use, you can always surprise me with it.

Wow. You are more beautiful in person and so warm. I was nervous coming to meet you but you made it all so easy. Can’t wait to begin serving you
— Anon Playmate
After we said goodbye and I traveled the short distance back to my building, up a flight of stairs and through the office doors — reality waiting for me just where I left it — I felt a heaviness I hadn’t felt in a long time. A mix of catharsis, relief, excitement, anxiety.. almost like getting good news from the doctor just as I beat my long distance running record. Sneezing a sneeze I held in for years.

I hope I mentioned it, but if that conversation was our last I would be quite content. You were very gentle, polite and your concern completely genuine.
— Anon Playmate
You are so good at this! Own me please, Mistress.
— Anon Servant
It was a pleasure to meet and play with you. You provided a perfect space to make me relaxed and open minded. Could spend hours playing and talking with you.
— Anon Playmate

Contact to book appointments

$300 / Hour

$900 / 5 hours

$250 / Hour - foot only

$200 mandatory assessment meeting / one time initiation tribute

Ideal recommended treatment is once a week. This allows for a natural growth within the process,

I take on a very limited number of clients, so bring your best to the assessment meeting. Be respectful, communicate clearly, and show me that you are serious and ready to follow my lead.

Absolutely no refunds for cancellations